How to Let Another Gay Guy Know You Like Him
I'grand 17, he's 18. I don't know his sexuality. We've known each other for 2 months and we're 'semi-friends'. He acts camp sometimes (I know that's not a sign really), he actively sits next to me, starts conversations with me and sticks up for me whenever somebody says something homophobic to me. I'1000 openly gay, so if he liked me would he take told me by now; is he merely being a squeamish guy? Should I tell him how I experience most him, and if and then, how can I cease it from being akwars in the futurity, equally I have to meet him everyday at schoolhouse?
To be honest, I think y'all shouldn't tell him. If he is gay/bi and he knows you're gay/bi
a) He doesn't similar you lot
b) He's not ready (to come out, to be in a human relationship, to be in a gay relationship)
c) He'southward also agape to make the start move
If information technology'due south a or b, you lot can't do annihilation about that. If c, yous've just got to give him an opportunity to come up out.
I've made the mistake of leaving a guy for about a year cos I wanted him to come out first just to be sure. He acted likewise friendly to be straight, he was very touchy and then on. I got bored waiting and eventually told him. He had no idea I thought he was gay/bi and now we're not even friends. I'yard telling this story as an case of how it tin backfire massively if he doesn't feel the aforementioned, even if you're certain he does.
find out first if he is gay, how hard tin can it be your already out then thats ane less hurdle
(Original mail service past Charzhino)
find out first if he is gay, how hard can information technology be your already out so thats one less hurdle
How do I discover out if he's gay without request him? He could react badly to that like the affiche above y'all said.
Find out if he's gay outset. It'due south the only way to do it without running the serious risk of ruining your friendship and making things really awkward. I recall waiting months before I asked 1 of my ex-boyfriends out because I wanted to find out if he was gay first.
How do I do that without request him if he's gay? If I ask him that then he'll assume (rightly) that I'm asking because I similar him.
(Original mail service by Teravolt)
How do I find out if he's gay without request him? He could react badly to that similar the poster above you said.
Ask him if hes got a girlfriend or if he finds any girl hot and wants to get with her.
(Original postal service by Teravolt)
How do I practice that without asking him if he's gay? If I ask him that then he'll presume (rightly) that I'k asking considering I like him.
Well in that location's the catchy part. You shouldn't ask him, you lot should either wait to find out or enquire someone else. I know it'southward a pain in the arse only it'southward the most risk-gratis way of doing it.
(Original post by Norfolkadam)
Well there'southward the catchy role. You shouldn't inquire him, you should either await to find out or enquire someone else. I know it's a hurting in the arse only it'due south the most gamble-free way of doing it.
I tin't really ask anyone else because he's in the year above me and then I don't know any of his friends. Approximate I'm just gonna have to expect if he says anything to me. Thanks 
Ask if he'due south gay first. You could say you were just wondering considering a lot of straight guys take the piss out of gay guys and information technology'due south really nice of him to stick upward for you? Make it seem every bit though y'all're wondering near his intentions rather than wanting to engagement him?
(Original postal service by Jesse_Mac)
To exist honest, I recall you shouldn't tell him. If he is gay/bi and he knows you're gay/bi
a) He doesn't similar yous
b) He'south not ready (to come out, to be in a human relationship, to exist in a gay relationship)
c) He's too afraid to make the first move
If information technology's a or b, you can't do anything about that. If c, you've just got to requite him an opportunity to come out.
I've made the fault of leaving a guy for about a year cos I wanted him to come out first just to be certain. He acted as well friendly to be straight, he was very touchy and so on. I got bored waiting and eventually told him. He had no thought I thought he was gay/bi and at present we're not even friends. I'one thousand telling this story as an example of how it tin can backfire massively if he doesn't experience the aforementioned, fifty-fifty if you're sure he does.
This. Do remember, that even if time passes and you do know his sexual preference, in that location is no obligation for your friendship to turn into something deeper/closer. As Jesse_Mac said, he might not like yous in that way. Then again, if he does, and hasn't told you so (for whatever reason), give him time, and a chance to say this.
P.S. Why are there 133 views but 10 responses (at the time of posting this)? Might mean something... 
To be honest I just don't know how to tell my friend I like him because were both male and bisexual because I similar him more that a friend
To be honest I but don't know how to tell my friend I like him because were both male and bisexual because I like him more that a friend
Just have no regrets you're the only knows your hugger-mugger and desire. No regrets live life
Just have no regrets you're the but knows your secret and desire. No regrets alive life
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IDK. I usually go around stating "you're pretty" in a really abrasive way only that's more similar my personality.
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